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Be persistent, but always be PROFESSIONAL

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Yesterday we discussed Decorum (HERE), the need to maintain order in Business Meetings, and the Robert’s Rules of Order “Committee on Discipline” when certain members & other parties refuse to maintain decorum.

[NOTE: What excites us the most about a Committee on Discipline is the ability to calmly and rationally … over time … allow folks to have an opportunity to investigate actions and expose purposeful LIES & manipulation … and stop it! It will be work, but it is necessary if we want to change things for the better!]

But maintaining decorum does not mean we blindly avoid confrontation and just give the other side everything they want just so they will shut-up. That is not the answer because like spoiling children, it will only get worse and worse over time.

And consider this … is avoiding controversy and giving in to self-interested bullies what has really gotten our Country in the mess it is in today? Think about it, and we think you will agree.

Common Myth:

Confrontation = Bad

For most of us, confrontation is not something we seek. We are not used to it, and we are not comfortable engaging in confrontation … or even watching confrontation, especially confrontation on the local level.

It is easier to watch folks “far away” in Washington DC engaging in confrontation … and sometimes we actually like it … but when it is at a local Party meeting, among people you personally know and run into at the grocery store … that confrontation is hard to stomach and many people JUST WANT IT TO STOP … no matter what the cost!!!

See how we got in this mess … by avoiding confrontation when self-interested “bullies” are insisting on their way?

Think about the politician who won’t stop arguing his point because he is getting “paid” somehow on the backend. We end up just giving him what he wants to get him to shut-up … but in the long run … after 250 years of doing so … look where we are today.

Confrontation = Seeking TRUTH

Confrontation is not bad … especially if we maintain decorum. In fact, like it or not, confrontation is a necessity if we want to maintain our Republic for future generations.

Instead of looking at confrontation as “arguing” … consider it as SEEKING TRUTH. Maybe the other party has a legitimate difference of opinion. Maybe they do not have the experience or knowledge about a matter … so they voice an opinion that to some of us makes no sense whatsoever. Or maybe they have an ulterior motive. Or maybe you are wrong and can learn something yourself.

Whatever the case … SEEK TRUTH!!! Don’t be rushed to judgement … and just give them what they want (HERE) … calmly and rationally discuss the issue and SEEK TRUTH!!!

As we teach … don’t get mad, keep calm and JUST SMILE!!! If the other party is nefarious and has an ulterior motive they won’t like you smiling and calmly discussing the matter … so let them EXPOSE themselves.

Remember, other folks are quietly watching and listening … making up their own minds on who to believe. So when truth is on your side, be persistent, but always be PROFESSIONAL.

UNDERSTANDING THE “GAMES” PEOPLE PLAY: In a group of 124 SC House Members … 46 State Senators … or 151 Precinct ECs (like we have here in Greenville) … not everybody needs to come up to the microphone and speak their mind … there isn’t enough time in the 2 or 4 year term to do that … but as leaders YOU DO HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY to learn and understand what is going on.

CONTINUING PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT: There are lots of educational tools out there to understand how to deal with “confrontation” … whether you are personally at the microphone participating … of if it is just learning to cope with your friends engage in confrontation at a local meeting.

Google “confrontation” and read some of the self-help materials. We can all learn something.

Know too that leaders have a responsibility to understand these things whether you are a SC House Rep or State Senator … or a Precinct EC or President. If you want to be a leader … then be a leader and LEARN!!!

Talk with all sides … trust no one … and “watch what they DO, not what they SAY.”

#Learn&GROW!!!

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Happy Sunday – April 12th, 2026

1 John 5:4

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As we look toward the June 9th primary and the upcoming midterm elections, the energy across the state is unmistakable. With the filing deadline now behind us and a significant road ahead to November 3rd, the mission to lead South Carolina with integrity and conservative conviction has never been more vital.

In the midst of debates and the fast-paced nature of the campaign season, let’s remember the grounding word from 1 John 5:4.

“For everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith.“

1 John 5:4

This scripture reminds us that while we work tirelessly for a win at the polls, our ultimate victory is already secured through our faith. We are called to be overcomers – not just of the opponents, but of the cynicism and weariness that often plague public service. This perspective allows us to participate without fear and campaign with a spirit of excellence.

As we press forward together, let’s carry this truth with us: our efforts are strengthened by a higher calling. Stay encouraged, stay grounded, and let’s continue fighting for the values that make South Carolina strong.

Thank you for standing with us in this important season. Your support, prayers, and hard work are deeply appreciated.

To repeat from last Sunday (HERE), He was mocked, beaten, and abused. He was nailed to the cross. Yet He conquered the power of sin and defeated death itself.

Happy Sunday!

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Coffee & Politics – Greenville Edition – April 10th, 2026

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Friends, we have been running a weekly Coffee & Politics Meeting out of our Greenville Headquarters for nearly 4 years now … and it has been a huge hit. It is how we communicate our vision and #Mission to or local Volunteers and Community … and it one way we RECRUIT more people to the MAGA America First movement.

Thank You to Our Special Guest!!!

Don Louis (Independent Candidate for US Senate – SC): Website (HERE)

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Happy Sunday – April 5th, 2026

Matthew 28:6

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He was mocked, beaten, and abused. He was nailed to the cross. Yet He conquered the power of sin and defeated death itself. He did it for you. He did it for me. He did it for the sins of the entire world. HE IS RISEN!

There is no greater comfort, no deeper peace, than living under the covering of the Lord – knowing the risen Savior walks with us through every trial, every joy, and every moment of this life. There is no greater blessing.

May the glorious truth of Easter, the risen Lord, fill your heart with love, gratitude, compassion, and unshakable hope.

Happy Easter!

“He is not here; He has risen, just as He said.“

Matthew 28:6

To repeat from last Sunday (HERE), this Palm Sunday, let us not just be “political actors” following a script, but “transformed citizens” who lead with a conscience shaped by faith rather than the shifting winds of culture.

Happy Sunday!

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Coffee & Politics – Greenville Edition – April 3rd, 2026

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Friends, we have been running a weekly Coffee & Politics Meeting out of our Greenville Headquarters for nearly 4 years now … and it has been a huge hit. It is how we communicate our vision and #Mission to or local Volunteers and Community … and it one way we RECRUIT more people to the MAGA America First movement.

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Voting in SC by the State Election Commission – March 31st, 2026

SEC Voter Education

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We came across this event while browsing our local library’s schedule—and we’re glad we did. The South Carolina State Election Commission has been traveling across the state hosting voter education presentations.

We attended one of these sessions and recorded it. You can watch the full presentation below.

WHERE: Check a local library near you – or contact SCvotes. www.scvotes.gov

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Happy Sunday – March 29th, 2026

Romans 12:2

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Dear South Carolina Patriots,
This Palm Sunday, let us not just be “political actors” following a script, but “transformed citizens” who lead with a conscience shaped by faith rather than the shifting winds of culture.

As Romans 12:2 reminds us: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” We remember the Triumphal Entry of Jesus, where the crowds sought a worldly king, but received a Savior who transforms from the inside out. Riding humbly on a donkey, He rejected earthly pomp as the people shouted “Hosanna!”

Today, we face the same choice: conform to cultural / political patterns or pursue mind-renewing transformation. As transformed citizens, may we engage politics with humility, truth, courage, and moral clarity rooted in Christ.

Happy Sunday!

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Romans 12:2

To repeat from last Sunday (HERE), as we enter Passion Sunday, Romans 8:11 reminds us of an incredible promise that fuels our hope and resolve.

Happy Sunday!

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